Thanksgiving - was Thanksgiving... family, family and more family and I still can't get it right.
I hate the fact that it is catch as catch can with my sister in law - no tables, no sharing and she sent her own husband out of the house to go shopping without getting dinner!! Who does that??
My idiot husband HAD to go to Toy R Us Thursday night for no good reason - we had all darn weekend to shop -it's a holiday!! Frankly I think he wanted out of the house.
I wasn't overly thrilled with my family either -- the girls had less than no interest in gingerbread houses - the boyfriend of my eldest niece was -- unique.
My husband spent half the weekend in perpetual pissed of and what a joy that was. I for the most part ignored him. What what is his issue to get shopping done the Friday after Thanksgiving. There was nothing that was on sale that we needed. I hadn't exchanged names with my family - we wont' see his family as heaven forbid they change anything... so we aren't there Christmas Eve - you both last year and my Christmas sucked.
Last night I had my once a month meeting in DC - as usual is was an awful commute, it was a long meeting - but the leak in my sundae glass was my darling husband calling before the meeting to ball me out about me spending money... Oh - whoa unto - me... I bought the bracelet my eldest niece asked for - that I discussed with him on the way home from Thanksgiving. And then I bought tickets for an event my mother, my sister and I wanted to attend... they are paying for their tickets. I which I had remembered that more money went to Vegas then came home... I always think of those things later. But every time I mention that it's "no it doesn't".
Makes me nuts.. and apparently my face shows it so when I returned from my phone call I was asked if everything was all right.
I firmly believe that my schedule of me leaving at 0-dark-early is he can't start my day with whatever bitchy whiny thing that crawled up his butt in the night. And with him traveling so much I can put the phone on speaker and listen with half an eye to whatever blatherings he's grumping about then...
I am sure when I pick him up tonight I will get another blast of "you spend all our money". Considering my mood - I may just leave him there.
All right I'm off to enjoy some girl time to counter act Bubba time later...
Stay warm - fight for that bargain and "ho -- ho --- ho You'll shoot you're eye out kid!"
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